Your Arousal Language

You’ve heard of the five love languages (no?! get studying!), well now there are five arousal languages for you to sort out. And these are critical to your effectiveness as a good lover!

1. Sexual – you are aroused by naked bodies, POV videos, porn, and are most likely to want to immediately “get it on” – no messing around with foreplay for this arousal type.
2. Kinky – you are turned on by anything taboo … that’s right, BDSM, pain, poop, piercings … Daddy/baby girl, all that “naughty” stuff.
3. Sensual – romance, bubble baths, candles, feathers, foot rubs (rubbing other “parts”), lots and lots of foreplay. As a matter of fact, foreplay is the “meat” of your arousal meal.
4. Energetic – you crave intense eye contact, connection, tantra, teasing, and you are super sensitive … no overactive/firm touching for you. Slow and easy does the trick.
5. Shape Shifter – you need all of the above. Insatiable, ever needing variety and eager to please your partner with any of the above methods because you crave them all.

And just to be clear, guys and gals can be any of the above. Don’t assume all women are sensual and all men are sexual … no, no, no … you would be making a grave mistake about your lover. ASK or try each one and see where your partner responds!