Cock Shibari Anyone?

You’ve got me excited now! One of My favorite activities is cock shibari for My submissive. Not only is it satisfying for Me, My sub is always super gratified and has intense orgasms.

It doesn’t even have to be fancy, the act of slowing binding the cock with thin rope arouses Me and My sub. It keeps the blood in this hard cock and makes for a granite penis to sit on … hard and textured for Me, and hyper-sensitive for him.

Give it a try. If I were a guy, I would have My cock bound 24/7!!

Which V is it?

Damn it people – know the difference between a vagina and a vulva. Use the correct term for the anatomy you are talking about, stroking, or licking. Pet peeve.

Pain, Pain or Pain?

What are the differences between correction, discipline and punishment? Severity. Correction is a nudge to remind the submissive of a small error made or a first time error – not knowing what he didn’t know. Training consists of lots of these. They may come in the form of pleasure denial (orgasm denial – certainly a form of pain for the submissive) or denial of some previously granted privilege (no touching of Mistress for a period of time). The lesson is learned.

Discipline is yet another level. The submissive was given clear instructions and a) didn’t listen, b) didn’t understand, c) ignored the request. In each of these actions there are varying levels of pain given … a slap, a spank, a kick, a whip … a behavior corrected.

Punishment … now that is something this Mistress hopes She never has to administer … because that *really* hurts. This is a level of pain that is NOT pleasurable to ensure that the behavior never happens again. Refusal of Mistress’ request? Oh, boy. you don’t want to go there. Out come the canes … damn.

The worst of all, however, is disrespect. Because once that happens, the submissive is dismissed – forever. Probably the worst pain of all for everyone.

BDSM Submissive Training

Submissive Training

Do you dream of becoming an obedient submissive? I specialize in training submissives and slaves. Classes are limited – and private. Don’t contact a Dominant until you know the basics! Don’t blow your chance to connect with a Dominant perfect for you. By knowing the basics about being a submissive, your potential new Dominant will be well pleased and not insulted by ignorance.

Online Lessons

The Submissive 101 class is available online for a small fee. I have purposely made this introductory information affordable for everyone. My sincere desire is to help you develop your submissive nature and evolve to a more fulfilling lifestyle.

Sessions

Basic training is required first! You’ll learn how to address a Dominant, submissive positions and postures, what type of submissive you are, and how to earn favor from your Superior. Only graduates can earn in person training. Once I see that you are dedicated, persistent, and reliable then you may be eligible for personal training. There is nothing like the crack of a whip to enforce your studies.

Hand-Picked Resources

In the Resources section, you will find recommended books, toys, online education, and social sites supporting BDSM.