Mommy/son Ageplay

Probably previously better known was Daddy/babygirl ageplay. But in 2014, Mom, MILF and Stepmom where all in the top 5 most searched porn terms. In 2015, Stepmom jumped to #1 in the US and #3 globally. (source: pornhub – 87 billion porn videos were watched in 2015 – that’s 12 videos for every person on the planet!)

Young men searching for porn videos today have grown up watching porn since their early sexually formative years. What female is around in their daily life to project their sexual fantasies onto? Mom.

With so many young men using porn for masturbation for so long, it can be difficult for them to translate that form of sexual satisfaction to sexual intimacy with a Woman. So who better to teach them about pleasing a Woman? Who is the most trusted Woman in their lives? Mom. Are they going to go to Mom for that – no! But … they can learn from an older Woman who “seems” like Mom.

So, yes! Mommy/son porn is hot right now. Older Women are sexually confident and know what they want and love to teach younger guys. Everyone wins!

Wikipedia:

Ageplay is not considered pedophilia or related to pedophilia by professional psychologists. Individuals who ageplay enjoy portraying children, or enjoy childlike elements typical of children present in adults.

Sexual ageplay itself does not involve the sexual attraction to biologically underage people. Rather, when a consenting adult takes on the roleplaying mindset of a young person, it is motivated by re-experiencing emotional states and social interactions of one’s youth, which also happen to be pleasurable in a sexual context to the participants.

What About Love?

Are BDSM relationships all about Dominance/submission, humiliation and pain? Or can actual love exist in the relationship?

Too often, people envision the D/s relationship as weird, perverted or deviant. But what actions develop the emotion of love? Open and honest communication, trust and vulnerability and the sharing of deep emotions.

Within a BDSM relationship, communication and trust are paramount. Each communicate their needs, wants, and fantasies. Each clarifies what they want based on the other’s questions about it. A scene is envisioned and then one must give control to the other. In reality, both open themselves to being vulnerable.

Intense emotions often emerge, and each must rely on the other to recognize them, deal with them, and provide aftercare to nurture the raw feelings that come forward. Don’t fool yourselves. Aftercare, is just as important for the Dominant.

Everyone structures relationships according to their needs. So do strictly “play partner” BDSM relationships exist? Absolutely. Does love reside there? Maybe/maybe not. That structure is casual and may not involve deep feelings of love. But Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, Alpha/little, Daddy/babygirl, Mommy/son, etc. relationships that are 24/7 lifestyle relationships often DO involve deep feelings of love and commitment.

So don’t worry that engaging in a BDSM lifestyle means the end to true love. It just might be the beginning of the most loving relationship you have ever been in.