Do You Identify as an Innocent?

A growing segment of the BDSM community is the realm of ageplay. It ranges from adult baby diaper lovers (ABDL), littles, middles, Mommy/son, to Daddy/daughter. But also in the mix of ageplay are pets … Alpha/cub/kit/colt …

Human ageplay may or may not include a sexual element and it may or may not include a nurturing element. Daddy might be pampering his princess, Son might be dominating His mommy, Mommy might be humiliating Her daughter or lovingly changing her diaper … babies might want non-sexual nurturing, middles might want Mommy to teach Her tween about sex … the combinations are as unique as each of us.

But let’s get back to the pet ageplay. This group seems to adore the playful/innocent space. It seems easier to be a young animal and be very playful and innocent (think of the mischievous sweetness of a little puppy or kitten). A young human is often times looked at as naive rather than innocent. Not so easy for a cuddle bunny to be naive … easier to be innocent.

So if you find yourself wanting to be playful, joyful and light in your spirit … you may be identifying as an innocent. Expressing yourself as an innocent may help your partner to understand your space better.

Mommy/son Ageplay

Probably previously better known was Daddy/babygirl ageplay. But in 2014, Mom, MILF and Stepmom where all in the top 5 most searched porn terms. In 2015, Stepmom jumped to #1 in the US and #3 globally. (source: pornhub – 87 billion porn videos were watched in 2015 – that’s 12 videos for every person on the planet!)

Young men searching for porn videos today have grown up watching porn since their early sexually formative years. What female is around in their daily life to project their sexual fantasies onto? Mom.

With so many young men using porn for masturbation for so long, it can be difficult for them to translate that form of sexual satisfaction to sexual intimacy with a Woman. So who better to teach them about pleasing a Woman? Who is the most trusted Woman in their lives? Mom. Are they going to go to Mom for that – no! But … they can learn from an older Woman who “seems” like Mom.

So, yes! Mommy/son porn is hot right now. Older Women are sexually confident and know what they want and love to teach younger guys. Everyone wins!

Wikipedia:

Ageplay is not considered pedophilia or related to pedophilia by professional psychologists. Individuals who ageplay enjoy portraying children, or enjoy childlike elements typical of children present in adults.

Sexual ageplay itself does not involve the sexual attraction to biologically underage people. Rather, when a consenting adult takes on the roleplaying mindset of a young person, it is motivated by re-experiencing emotional states and social interactions of one’s youth, which also happen to be pleasurable in a sexual context to the participants.